FAQs
Who is GAY4U for?
GAY4U is an event for the queer pop girlies and everyone under the LGBTQIA+ umbrella - and anyone who comes correct! Whether you're a regular on the dancefloor or just discovering us, you’re welcome here.
What is GAY4U?
We’re a queer event series and creative platform founded by Harriet Rose, celebrating pop culture, joy, and community. We throw iconic parties with big energy and even bigger lineups - from our first event in an East London basement with SELF ESTEEM to DJ sets from Bimini and Jade Thirlwall last Christmas, and even a GAY4U party at Emirates Stadium with Arsenal WFC.
How do I find out about upcoming events?
We announce all GAY4U events here on the site and on Instagram @gay4u_bby. Want to be first in line? Sign up to our mailing list for early access and exclusive drops.
Where can I buy tickets?
When events are live, we’ll post ticket links on our Events page and in our Instagram bio. Some events sell out quickly—so sign up to the mailing list to get first dibs.
I’ve never been to a GAY4U event - can I still get involved?
Absolutely. Our events are open to all queer people and allies. If you’re respectful, kind, and up for a good time, you’re part of the family.
Can I come on my own?
Yes! Loads of people come solo and end up making new friends. GAY4U is a safe and inclusive space - whether you come with a crew or not, you’re never on your own here.
Is GAY4U wheelchair accessible?
We always try to work with venues that are accessible, but as events vary, please check the details listed on each event page. If you have specific access needs, email us at info@gay4u.co.uk and we’ll do everything we can to support you.
How can I perform, DJ or get involved?
We’re always looking to spotlight queer talent - DJs, performers, support staff and more. If you’re interested in working together, send us a message at info@gay4u.co.uk or DM us on Instagram.
Do you ship GAY4U merch internationally?
Right now, we ship within the UK. International shipping is coming soon—sign up to our mailing list to be the first to know when it launches.
How long does shipping take?
We aim to ship within 5-7 working days (maximum!). During launch weeks or busy periods, it may take a little longer. You'll get a tracking link when your order’s on the way.
Can I return or exchange my order?
We can only offer returns or exchanges on faulty items at this time. We’re a very small team and work with limited stock, but drop us an email if there’s an issue - we’ll make it right.
Can I buy GAY4U merch even if I haven’t been to an event?
Of course. GAY4U is a vibe, not a guest list. If you feel it, you’re part of it.
How do I get in touch?
You can email us anytime at info@gay4u.co.uk or DM us on Instagram @gay4u_bby.